Triumph and Turmoil: The Dual Faces of Success (Part 4)
Part 4 of 4 – Triumph and turmoil reminds leaders that success can be intoxicating and lead to hubris and bad judgement. Therefore leaders need to stay humble.
In our previous issue, we discussed that success must be measured in terms of character formation, healthier family life, becoming the best we can be and grooming successors.
In this issue, we will cover 4 other perspectives of success.
- Success is about developing people
People’s development must be a top priority for leadership. This is not just propelled by the functionality of performance, but it must be a personal value of the leader, regardless of employee loyalty. This is the human stewardship required of today’s leaders. Great leaders put a high premium on developing human potential. This is the concept of dignification: treating employees as human beings rather than cogs in a money machine, providing them opportunities to develop skills to accomplish meaningful jobs, and nurturing human potential at every level.
There is a tight tension between people development and corporate profitability. Overemphasizing either side of the equation would be a mistake.
Without profitability, the company cannot survive, provide jobs, or develop people. Without people of integrity and competence, the company can never become profitable.
- Success is learning from failures and adversity
Research done by the Center for Creative Leadership shows that most leaders learn leadership lessons from crises and failures. Certainly, a key success factor of leadership must be resilience. Tom Gernedas, a Holocaust survivor, saw failure as a very human-centered notion: “When we fail in spite of doing our best, it could turn out to be a step towards better things we cannot see at the time of apparent failures.”
Similarly, Patrick Morley of Orlando described a downturn in his real estate business by saying, “God wanted to get my attention…(Failure) is the reality and even has its merits: it keeps us humble and fit and teaches us to do the most with little. In fact, we may feel more secure and have an even better system of values.”
- Success is about developing friendships
Jim Baker, former US Secretary of State, once said, “The fleeting aspect of power causes us to understand the importance of lasting personal relationships – friendships. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “God does not intend all of us to be rich, or to be powerful or great, but he intends all of us to be friends.”
For the CEO, friendship is the hardest social relationship to find and enjoy. They tend to see people as functional beings, either clients or competitors. They are afraid of being exploited. Sometimes, past experiences of corporate betrayal scare their desire to develop friendships.
They are also fearful of exploiting their friendships for business. Great leaders can distinguish between professional relationships and personal relationships. They tread this line carefully.
Dr Robert S. Weiss, a psychiatrist who has studied executive social choices, reports that friendship is an extremely wide discretionary area for a successful executive. Many executives make no time at all for friendship, or they see this area of their lives as “totally optional.”
However, friendship has tremendous benefits. We are primarily gregarious creatures. The first face we see is the other. We are made for friendship and intimacy.
The other benefit is the emotional support for the tough job of the CEO.
Raytheon’s Tom Phillips explains, “Being a CEO is the loneliest position in the world. And you must have someone you trust to whom you can talk and compare notes.”
Friendship also allows us to share perspectives about business issues and to engage with social justice issues.
4. Success is about developing companies that embody these values of success
Finally, success is about leaving a legacy. How we end is more important than how we start. Our corporations must embody these values if we are truly successful. This is perhaps the most arduous challenge for the leader.
Leadership is about channeling the needs of the individual worker into a productive harmony with the needs of the group to the fulfilment of the organization’s purpose, which then brings it into a full cycle of dignification and relationships between people. William Rentschler, former chairman of The Medart Companies, and now a consultant/business broker to private firms. He has been most effective in turning floundering and failing small to mid-size companies around. His primary motivation is job creation. He is an eloquent spokesperson and a living example of the CEO’s responsibility to provide meaningful work.
He has a deep, unconditional commitment to the welfare of others and intrinsic respect for individuals.
“The good people are out there in abundance, eager to take the reins, but must need a little help, which we must provide…
When I die, I hope whoever delivers the eulogy will remember me as one who sought always to provide steady, decent, challenging jobs, which allowed good people to support their families, build and retain their self-esteem and “work hard at work worth doing.”
I would consider that among the contributions that make a life worthwhile.”
How inspiring!
In conclusion, it is a truism that when we have these perspectives of success and strive to embody these success principles, we will move from becoming successful leaders to great leaders.
Dr John Ng
Chief Passionary Officer,
Meta Consulting
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